Candyz

Ever wondered why we go through tough times?why we experience PAIN? Its because Sometimes blessings come through raindrops,come through PAIN. Ever wondered why we cry?because sometimes healing comes through tears. What if just what if the trials of this life are your mercies in disguise. Don't dwell on your pain, don't hold on the pain for too long, focus on the purpose of the pain. Understand that you needed that pain to get you where God needed you to be... Maybe you needed that pain to have a closer encounter with God Maybe u needed that pain to realize who you are and how strong you can be And maybe you needed that pain to open your mind and see where you have been is no longer your home,  and therefore you need to step away. Maybe the pain is there for you to step up..to let go, to forgive, to free yourself from what you have been holding on. Embrace yourself and be grateful for all the challenges that come on your way. You become a winner when you ove...

So i was listening to this song by Angel Benard '' Nikumbushe wema wako" And it made me think of situations that i have complained so much when things did not go the way i expected or wanted them to be, i also got reminded of how quickly people change opinion over a person once they are wronged. How quickly we judge people and forget the good things they did right by us, how one mistake makes us erase all the good things they did by us and see them as bad. Am reminded of how as people enjoy the rain when it comes, and start lamenting when it starts flooding, Of how we don't remain calm when troubled, of how we sometimes start blaming and are negative at thoughts when going through hard times. BUT That never takes us anywhere. first we  must learn to stay CALM(involves not jumping into conclusion), when the pressure is on, We should embrace new ways of thinking and view situations from all side, Keep the faith  and hope in God, and think positively. with l...