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Wema Wako



So i was listening to this song by Angel Benard '' Nikumbushe wema wako"
And it made me think of situations that i have complained so much when things did not go the way i expected or wanted them to be, i also got reminded of how quickly people change opinion over a person once they are wronged. How quickly we judge people and forget the good things they did right by us, how one mistake makes us erase all the good things they did by us and see them as bad.
Am reminded of how as people enjoy the rain when it comes, and start lamenting when it starts flooding,
Of how we don't remain calm when troubled, of how we sometimes start blaming and are negative at thoughts when going through hard times.
BUT
That never takes us anywhere.
first we  must learn to stay CALM(involves not jumping into conclusion), when the pressure is on,
We should embrace new ways of thinking and view situations from all side,
Keep the faith  and hope in God, and think positively.

with love
Kandi

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