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Let go when it doesn't fit



Many of us see the truth in front of us but we never wanna accept or admit it...
like we are never ready to embrace the truth, we hope and wish black to be white and where there is red we want to see green.
For example you can go for  job interview and u know that U won't get it but u never admit it to anyone..
Or you know someone doesn't like u or give a damn about you, how??we are conscious enough to know where love and care is!and where there is no love, but we keep having empty hopes.
Or you lose something but you never wanna accept that its gone..( i remember losing a mobile phone and it took me weeks to accept that it was actually gone and i needed to get a replacement)
Learn to let go,,,REMEMBER you are a living thing and one characteristic of a living thing is adapting to change..so adapt with the change of not having what you think YOU  had or will have in future but there is no any possible way of having it....
what am saying here is this,,,,
Sometimes we try hard to fit in a place where we can't fit but we keep on fighting and fighting to fit in and in the end instead of fitting in we get broken...
It's the same as the saying that goes as you can't push the wall,you will get tired and break your fingers with frustration of punching it...
Dont try too much to fit or fix a broken glass as it will cut your fingers and leave you hurt.
Be wise enough to know when to pursue and when to let go.....
Just don't hold on people who don't hold on you...if they never want to be in your life accept and say a loving good bye..you cant force people to love you or accept you, let it come naturally and if they aint feeling that way, accept it., huezi kupendwa na kila mtu.
Just don't accept lying to yourself when you can see the truth, accept it..
Just accept that you can't have the exact same things your neighbour has,,
Maybe your road is different and much better!!!
let it go with happiness and you will be content!

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