Skip to main content

THe SMall GOals THat BRing So MUCH in LIfe



I have been struggling with somethings in my head for the past few weeks and i must say that they had been draining my energy, been trying to accept something and letting it free from my mind but it wasn't easy. So i decided that i would have to work  extra hard to free my mind, how can my mind control me?not in any way.
So i dedicated my week to three things

#1.5 days workout (Monday to FRIDay),Clean eating and Enough WATER- am happy that i have accomplished this, the normal me works out two to three days and then weigh myself end of the week to a great disappointment of no weight loss and i then stop. But one thing that i have come into terms with is that;Exercises are not only for losing weight but for keeping a health you, so whether i drop a pound or not, am choosing this to be my life style. Working out makes me feel good and makes my body flexible. And on top of that i am learning to be PERSISTENT(exercises are not that easy, eating clean with so much junkies around you is hard, drinking water and going to pee all the time is quite annoying but still i pushed myself so hard) AND CONSISTENT(i did all (the exercises as i planned, denied my self from junkie cravings and drunk enough water, not less than 8 cups daily)without changing my mind).

#2.Reading books; i have never finished reading whatever book i start reading and so i decided to be reading one chapter of a book per day on all those books i have pending, and i must say that it has really been going well, reading opens my mind to think differently to most things in life, gives me knowledge and gives me ideas especially with my writing hobby. Therefore my idle mind has been really occupied with good stuffs.

#3. PRaying and counting my blessings: Prayers restores peace in me, Prayers help me get through any difficult moment that i cant control or change, and specifically i prayed for God to empty ME and make me SELFLESS, and so i spent my week not complaining about anything,not thinking of any of my personal problems but I spent counting my blessings, asking God to give me endurance and wisdom to face the challenges I have and giving thanks for everything even for the bad things.

And so my week was the best week of my life, i feel i have accomplished something and i am very determined to still do it, infact i have the urge to live it And i will live it.
Sometimes in life, you have to set just small goals that will change your life, change your mindset and help you grow and bring happiness to you. It doesnt have to be something so big. Remember small steps in life directs you to bigger steps, and so in the coming weeks am looking foward to expand my small goals to bigger ones that will bring success.

happy weekend to my readers.

xoxo.
candy.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

NEW YEAR, NEW MIND

Its 2018. Am grateful to God for allowing me and my family, friends to see this year. 2017, was quite a long, challenging year for me, my mind was a battlefield that hosted the many wars that were in me, i felt helpless most of the time and it was as if everything was not working out. But at the end of the year, i was constantly telling myself that i needed to step in 2018 with a changed mind, changed attitude towards everything that has been battling in my mind, changed view of how i see life, changed mind on how i see myself and life generally. I just wanted to take control of my mind, and every situation that i can possibly control and the hardest i leave them to God. Now a new year, does not necessary make everything new, nor does the movement of the clock produce the newness of life , it is the movement in your mind that gives newness to life. Our biggest enemy we have in our lives is 'ourselves', in what we think, in what we have in our minds, and unless we take ...

Ndi ndi ndi " lady jaydee's comeback"

We missed Jide and now she is here with ndi ndi ndi.. Its a nice song.. Can be downloaded for free for east afrcans and for those outside eastafrica can get it for $0.15 Link  https://www.mkito.com/song/?idx=10211

Maisha class by Dina Marios

Was watching a maisha class by Dina Marios and am really impressed with what she spoke about...we live in a community that not everyone is like the other person, but we are supposed to know who we are and how to behave in the best possible way we can be..no one is perfect but we can try to be the best we can.. Below are 8+1(from me) lessons that can add something to your life, can change your perception perhaps and inspire you to be the best.. Will summarize below 1.True happiness comes from within, not from without, not from your friends, family, boy\girlfriend. .you have you to love..you have you to fight for.. 2.live without fear and taking a step-u are here in the world for a purpose..its your life..take control 3.dont make any decision under influence of anger,,instead think,analyze and make the decision anger free 4.no situation is permanent, no matter what it is it will pass..we live in seasons that come and go..so dont stress too much 5.be flexible for change and b...