Ofcourse as a woman.it feels good to be told you are beautiful..personally I blush when am told am beautiful and it makes me feel womanish!!wink! But after the smiling I always ask myself "when people say I am beautiful "do they just look at my appearance or is it more than that"
Well am always interested with the inner beauty! That is what I wish those that get a chance to come close to me to see.
External beauty is nothing without a beautiful light in your soul, and without healthy self-love (that enables you to then love others), whether you see it in society or not. Most of today’s role models for young girls and women spread such a wrong message. A lot represent the « outer beauty » but without the inner one, have completely lost themselves, and only live for the approval of others. They only act for social recognition. All their attention is put in their possessions, outer looks and everything that is external and that people can see. But no work is done on their spirit and on their soul. Then the young girls and even older women think they have a problem, for not being this way, and take those values as the values to relate to, and that’s what’s dangerous about it. They lose themselves too.
women love themselves physically. This is not possible to be truly happy if you hate yourself everyday when you look at yourself in the mirror. The thing is, you shouldn’t change your physique to fit any society standards, or trend, but to really be the representation of who you want to be, and what image you want to project to the world, whatever that image is, as long as YOU like it.
A real woman is a woman that works on her inner beauty consistently. She’s consistently reinventing herself, evolving, progressing. She is a sensual being, made to possess qualities such as: softness, understanding, kindness, willingness to protect, to heal. Her senses are highly developed. She inspires wisdom, and her integrity inspires men to become softer and to calm their « fighting » instincts and research of power. She is sensitive and sensual, she knows her worth, without being self-absorbed, she has an healthy self-esteem. She is WITH women and not against them. She wants to present herself at her best to the world, physically, but because she loves beauty in general, and also because she respects herself a lot, and she wants her lifestyle to represent her love for herself, and her external world to match her internal world, which is the constant search for beauty, harmony, evolution, and self expression.
She is not running after superficial things anymore,the need for other people acceptance,the need to show off to be loved,the need to play a character for other people's love or to fit society's standards.
She doesnt escape what she trully is..she has stepped into her real power..
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