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Somethig about Relationships



So today I want to talk about living the truth in any relationship..
Am not an expert in relationships nor am I a good example to give when it comes to having and achieving a successful relationship..
God knows how hard it is to keep a relationship nowadays,be it a husband,wife or boyfriend,girlfriend etc.
But one of the secret to this is understanding and being truthful..
Most of us get into dating without really knowing what and why we are getting into a relationship. We just find ourselves dating, in love and in a relationship.
And when we love we fall short of sight, yes we become blind, is this not the reason why we say love is blind,.I think it is..

Well since we are talking about relationships, in my thinking here is a list of things for a quick self check that are important to consider.
1.never agree to move blindly without knowing why u are in that relationship..
2.Know your relationship content,purpose, mission
3.know why that person is your choice.
And the most important of all this is being TRUTHFUL.
Never ever be afraid to say the truth,or ask for the truth when in a relationship.
Be honest as much as every moment.
Keep the trust that you expect to be given.
Don't assume anything but always require to know even the most scaring things you don't wanna hear. That is the only way you can never have doubts n enjoy your relationship.
Also
A reminder..we, people are selfish by nature at least everyone has the "me first"
So you got to be very careful., people will use you at their benefit in a relationship and will emotionally blackmail you to thinking that you are loved.
Just never lie to yourself and keep your head up..... Just because you love her/ him a lot don't downsize yourself or don't undervalue yourself to feeling like without him you cannot exist..just love him/her enough and make sure your eyes and mind can see clearly and make a relationship work..
A relationship built on trust and truthfulness never fails...
Because none of you two is burdened by a bunch of lies that can pull you apart...I call it a clean relationship..
Cheers to all those having clean relationships...

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