2best lessons for week 2 2016

As the week comes to an end..what are the things that you have learned?what are the things that you have achieved?
Well everyone has a battle that they are dealing with..and you can never know how well the shoe fits the other person if you are not that person..so the best thing you can do is to be kind! Some only need your smile, some only need your one text saying hello, some only need you to extend your hand and lift em up..
Personally in this week I have learned two things!!
1.understanding

That when people hurt you so much..don't hate them or don't do anything to hurt them back..but instead try to put yourself in their shoe and understand them..not all the times people do things with purpose of hurting you..be positive enough to allow positive possibilities that might have caused them to act or do whatever hurt you, just don't focus on the hurting part.

#2..on love

Love is a wider subject that we have to talk about everyday because this is what makes us..we are made of love..our biggest commandment is to love one another..well as it says "DONT LOVE WITH EXPECTIONS BCOZ WHEN EXPECTATIONS ARE NOT MET THE LOVE TURNS TO OFFENCE,ANGER.BITTERNESS,HATRED AND EVENTUALLY BECOMES SIN"

Do not expect to be given the same amount of love you give out to others....sometimes you can be rejected and sometimes people can step on what you are giving to them..love them any way and pray for them but don't hate!!!and don't force them to love you back.."like the saying goes tends wema uende zako" love and never expect to get same amount of love u give out"

Tumeagizwa upendo...

Wishing you a happy weekend!!

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