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BLOOM WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED

We cant always choose what comes in our life, neither can we prevent some circumstances happening.
life happens.
Things happen., whether good or bad, they still happen.
You may not be where you want to be in life, you may not have the things you want to have in life, you might be still working on your dream so hard, and at times your life can look so broken and you keep wondering if ever you will be able to put back all the pieces and live completely.

But then we have a choice of stepping back and letting situations control us or stepping up and making the best of our situations.
"keeping our dreams alive is what uplifts the human spirit",
sometimes our dreams take time., and sometimes we have to tolerate somethings that we do not like to eventually get where we want to be.

Instead of getting bitter and giving up, why not try blooming where you have been planted?
the big question here is how?

>Think of a flower that grows beautifully and admirably through a crack in the concrete, how did it do?
>Think positively that every chapter in life builds a foundation to launch the next chapter, where you are now is providing you with vital lessons for your next  adventure, remember your destiny is not determined by your current situation.
>Stop complaining, learn to rise above the situations you cant control. If you cant change anything,change your attitude towards it. What you tend to focus on, expands. Embrace positive energy.
>Be a Blessing, your struggles prepares you to be in the path of someone that needs what you can give, whatever you give it comes back to you in bigger ways.
Finally keep your tranquility even when the world around  you is swirling, trust that the dots in your life will somehow connect in the future,  bloom where you have been planted, even if you find yourself planted under some concrete, look for the crack to find your way out.

with love.
Kandi

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